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: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E<LI cl=
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e: 12=2E0pt'=3EUnderstand that happiness is not based on possessions, power =
and prestige but on relationships with people you love and respect=2E<o:p=3E=
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back on your life, you=92ll regret the things you didn=92t do more than the =
ones you did=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</B=3E<LI class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'=
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'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EDon=92=
t do anything that wouldn=92t make your mum proud=2E</SPAN=3E</B=3E<SPAN lan=
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yourself to constant improvement is usually a guarantee that you will end up=
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e and ask them which is the one you (dad) have to work on the most=2E (If yo=
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ay is the first day of the rest of your life=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: =
yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ELead by example and your family will gladly follow you=2E=
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n married=A0to Alison for=A028 years=2E He is the father of five children, f=
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EN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EIn an age of equal rights and=
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or occasions like Birthdays, and Fathers Day, and then it=92s all buy, buy, =
buy! Families wonder whether to wrap us in robes, fill us with food, surpris=
e us with sporting goods, tickle us with tools, or just cover us with kisses=
=2E Now think of your own father =96 meditate on what that one individual ha=
s contributed=2E Think about his influence over you, his investment in you, =
his insights to you=2E Feel his hand wrapped around yours=85his strong, secu=
re arm across your shoulders=2E Remember his grip that once communicated a b=
alanced mixture of gentleness and determination=85compassion and masculinity=
=85not only his =93I understand=94 but also his =93Now straighten up!=94<o:p=
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=3EBest of all, take time to recall his exemplary character=2E The word is =93=
integrity=94=2E Pause and remind yourself of just one or two choice moments =
in your past when he stood alone=85when he stood by you=85when he stood agai=
nst insurmountable odds=85when he provided that shelter in your time of stor=
m=85when he protected you from the bitter blast of life=92s harsh consequenc=
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od thanks=2E Thank the giver of every good and perfect gift for the meaningf=
ul marks your dad has branded on the core of your character=85the wholesome =
habits he has woven into the fabric of your flesh=2E While meandering throug=
h this forest of nostalgia, stop at the great oak named Proverbs and reflect=
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ughters] after him=94 (20:7)=2E How very true! How blessed you are!<o:p=3E</=
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you will ever have=2E Take it from me, there=92s only one thing he needs as =
a gift from you=2E Plain and simple, he needs to hear you say, =93Dad, I lov=
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y: 'Courier New''=3EPaul and his wife are the Children=92s Ministry Coordina=
tors for the Goodlife <o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal sty=
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family: 'Courier New''=3ECommunity Centre in Buderim, QLD=2E Paul has</SPAN=3E=
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font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E children aged two,=A0ten and=A0thirteen years=2E Pau=
l is an active surfer and a family man who hasn't lost his sense of humour=2E=
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nt-family: ' Roman=3F=3F New Times=3E<STRONG=3ELEARNING FROM A LOVING FATHER=
</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E</H1=3E<H1 style=3D'MARGIN: 1=2E5pt 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E<=
SPAN style=3D'FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; ms=
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by Leo Talbot</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-WEIGHT: normal; FONT-SIZE: 10pt; F=
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al'=3E<=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-microsoft-com:offic=
e:office' /=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</H1=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'M=
ARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN:=
 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3EMy dad was not very well =91schooled=
=92=2E He left at about age 11 or 12 when his father, who was then 38, died =
from Chronic Asthma, Bronchial Pneumonia and Cardiac Arrest=2E The family ha=
d started out with twelve children, but by 1927 only seven or eight were sti=
ll alive=2E My father, being the oldest living boy was well acquainted with =
the tears of a grieving mother=2E So now he was the bread winner=2E</P=3E<P =
class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3D=
MsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3EAlthough d=
ad, who had migrated from England in 1924, had only a few years schooling, h=
e was an educated man, particularly when it came to the =91fairer=92 sex, an=
d understanding how to help children grow up and handle responsibility=2E</P=
=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P =
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do not know where he obtained these =91life=92 skills from, but he had them=2E=
</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E=
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My dad was a fairly well known and successful trainer of greyhounds by the t=
ime I was 8 years old in 1949=2E At the tender young age of 16 he had a dog =
called Walson Boy(I may have the spelling wrong), that would win at local Me=
lbourne tracks(White City, Napier Park, Sandown and Maribynong), starting of=
ten as an odds on favorite=2E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm=
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pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3EDad would walk six or seven dogs on his own mo=
rning and night=2E I would walk with him, often wondering how his arms staye=
d in their sockets, especially when the greyhounds would take a fancy to a c=
at=2E My dad was a bit like the Man from Snowy River in that he was little m=
ore than a =91stripling=92; but he was wiry and tough and no four legged bea=
st ever got the better of him=2E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: =
0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0c=
m 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3EI remember that he was kind to animals, and=
 perhaps that contributed to his success=2E He was gentle with these highly =
sensitive speed =91machines=92=2E Perhaps that was part of his secret as a t=
rainer; he treated the dogs well and as a result they ran well=2E</P=3E<P cl=
ass=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3E=A0<=
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ify=3EAt that time in the 1940=92s, prize money for winning a race was about=
 10 pounds, in the currency of the day=2E Dad would receive his best income =
as a =91sling=92 from those who backed his dogs when they won=2E</P=3E<P cla=
ss=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DM=
soNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3EI used to h=
elp dad in subtle ways=2E Perhaps the following will do as an illustration=3F=
</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E=
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Dad and I would drive out to White <IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Eboswe=
b=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5FBuick%20150=2Ejpg' alig=
n=3Dright vspace=3D3 border=3D0=3ECity (near Sunshine, an outer suburb of Me=
lbourne)in a late 30=92s Buick with a couple of dogs in the back that needed=
 a =91kill=92(A =91kill=92 was where a greyhound would unleash its full anim=
al instinct on a live rabbit=2E There were good reasons for doing this at th=
e time, but Animal Liberationists would have had real difficulty with the pr=
actice)=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EMy role was to ge=
t over the fence of the dog track and open the gate so that dad, and the dog=
s, could get in=2E Please forgive me folks, I was just a boy at the time=3F<=
/P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0=A0</P=3E=
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So, like Charles Dickens=92 Artful Dodger, I also was rewarded commensurate =
with the successful outcome of the venture=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: ye=
s'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIf a dog that I had helped dad with won a race, then I sha=
red in the spoils=2E </P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt=
 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5=
pt' align=3Djustify=3EInterestingly enough, I do not gamble at all=85not eve=
n in a Melbourne Cup sweep=2E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm=
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ARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3EAt length I wanted to =91reall=
y=92 help: I wanted to walk a particular black dog that I had become attache=
d to=2E I was about 10 and very, very skinny=2E I must have asked dad a hund=
red times as we would walk the dogs of a morning and an evening=2E I was not=
 so keen on the <IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5F=
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rder=3D0=3Emornings, so I must have really been a pest in the evenings=2E</P=
=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustif=
y=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' alig=
n=3Djustify=3ENow, it is important to understand a couple of things about gr=
eyhounds=2E They are not like homing pigeons, or small fox terriers that can=
 be let out of a night for a run=2E When they do get loose, they do run; tha=
t is what they are trained to do=85run and run and run and really fast!</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P cla=
ss=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3EMost =
of dad=92s dogs were owned by somebody else=2E At the time he did not have e=
nough cash to invest in a good dog=2E So, these were other peoples=92 assets=
=2E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3D=
justify=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt=
' align=3Djustify=3EBut at length, he just could not stand my constant badge=
ring=2E So, one night as we turned from Canning Street, North Melbourne into=
 Melrose street, he stopped and said<I=3E: =91OK son=2E If you think you can=
 handle this dog, tonight he is yours=2E=92</I=3E For some time prior to thi=
s evening of exhilaration, dad had been =91schooling=92 me on how to do this=
=2E <I=3E=91Put your hand through the loop at the end of the lead, and then =
wrap the lead around your wrist and hand a few times so that you have a tigh=
t grip=2E=92<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</I=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN:=
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s'=3E=A0</SPAN=3E=91Lean back and not forward, so that the dog can feel the =
tension otherwise he will not know that you are on the other end=2E=92 <o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</I=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5p=
t' align=3Djustify=3E<I=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0</SPAN=3E=91=
Let him know that you are the boss=2E=92 Etc=2E Etc<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</I=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E<I=3E=A0<o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</I=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5p=
t' align=3Djustify=3EYeah, yeah, I said=2E I remember it all dad=2E<I=3E </I=
=3ESo my father handed me MY dog=2E Boy if only all my mates could have seen=
 me now=3F Mick Cassar, Duffy Winterbine, Eric Daniells, Barry Rankin, Chook=
a Burr, Peter Oliver, John Tormey, Barry Noonan, Tarz(short for =91Tarzan=92=
)=85to name but a few=2E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm =
0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E=
5pt' align=3Djustify=3EWell, we hadn=92t traveled far when a dreaded cat app=
eared from out of nowhere=2E Dad had six dogs and I had, I repeat =91HAD=94 =
one=2E This thing took off and I took off with it=2E I was not totally stupi=
d, but I think I heard dad tell me to =91Let go=92=2E I did and the last we =
saw of that dog was as he bolted into the shadows of a wintry evening=2E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3Djustify=3E=
=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt' align=3D=
justify=3EDad was concerned for me, both physically and emotionally=2E I had=
 =91blown=92 my big chance=2E I was never =91scolded=92 over this affair=2E =
Dad would have had to pay the owner for the loss of the dog=2E But dad knew =
that young Leo was more important than any number of four-legged speedsters=2E=
</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E<I=3E=A0=A0=
<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</I=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt=
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justify=3E<I=3E=91Sure dad=92, </I=3Eand we were on our way with six greyhou=
nds and a kid that knew one of his two best friends really cared about him=2E=
 The other best friend was my mum, and in the cool of that August night, no =
kid ever felt a warmer glow within=2E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MAR=
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 10 grandchildren and has been happily married for 40 years=2E<SPAN style=3D=
'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EHe has a background in Strategic Sales an=
d IT=2E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D=
2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</=
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=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3EA man and his dog were walking along a road=
=2E The man was enjoying the scenery, when it suddenly occurred to him that =
he was dead=2E He remembered dying, and that the dog walking beside him had =
been dead for years=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 12pt; mso-fareast-f=
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 a while, they came to a high, white stone wall along one side of the road=2E=
 It looked like fine marble=2E At the top of a long hill, it was broken by a=
 tall arch that glowed in the sunlight=2E When he was standing before it he =
saw a magnificent gate in the arch that looked like Mother of Pearl, and the=
 street that led to the gate looked like pure gold=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=
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gin-bottom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3EHe and the dog walked =
toward the gate, and as he got closer, he saw a man at a desk to one side=2E=
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=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-a=
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<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'Of course, sir=2E Come right in, and I'll hav=
e some ice water brought right up=2E' The man gestured, and the gate began t=
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t a moment and then turned back toward the road and continued the way he had=
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PAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3EAfter another long walk, and at the top of anoth=
er long hill, he came to a dirt road which led through a farm gate that look=
ed as if it had never been closed=2E There was no fence=2E As he approached =
the gate, he saw a man inside, leaning against a tree and reading a book=2E<=
/SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-=
top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E=
'Excuse me!' he called to the reader=2E 'Do you have any water=3F'</SPAN=3E<=
/P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: =
auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'Yeah, su=
re, there's a pump over there'=2E The man pointed to a place that couldn't b=
e seen from outside the gate=2E 'Come on in=2E'</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMso=
Normal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bo=
ttom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'How about my friend here=3F=
' the traveler gestured to the dog=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal sty=
le=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: =
auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'There should be a bowl by the pump=2E=
' They went through the gate, and sure enough, there was an old-fashioned ha=
nd pump with a bowl beside it=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto'=
=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3EThe traveler filled the bowl and took a lon=
g drink himself, and then he gave some to the dog=2E When they were full, he=
 and the dog walked back toward the man who was standing by the tree waiting=
 for them=2E 'What do you call this place=3F' the traveler asked=2E</SPAN=3E=
</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt:=
 auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'This is=
 Heaven,' he answered=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN:=
 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN=
 style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'Well, that's confusing,' the traveler said=2E 'The=
 man down the road said that was Heaven, too=2E'</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMs=
oNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-b=
ottom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'Oh, you mean the place wit=
h the gold street and pearly gates=3F Nope=2E That's Hell=2E'</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;=
 mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'Doesn't it ma=
ke you mad for them to use your name like that=3F'</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3D=
MsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin=
-bottom-alt: auto'=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: blue'=3E'No=2E I can see how you =
might think so, but we're just happy that they screen out the folks who'll l=
eave their friends behind=2E'</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E</H4=3E<br=3E<=
br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=
=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<=
tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'ht=
tp://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Gener=
ic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D=
25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5F=
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font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E=
<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor5'=3E</a=3E<b=3EFathering Food</b=3E</font=3E<font fa=
ce=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=
=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue86-19th April, 2004=
=5Fman=5Feating=2Ejpg' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <H1 class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3E</FONT=3E=A0=
</H1=3E<H1 style=3D'MARGIN: 1=2E5pt 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E<I=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E=
<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</I=3E=A0</H1=3E<H1 style=3D'MARGIN=
: 1=2E5pt 0cm 0pt 1=2E5pt'=3E<I=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E<=3F=
xml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D 'urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office' =
/=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</I=3E=A0</H1=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal st=
yle=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=A0</P=
=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt' align=3Djustify=3E<STR=
ONG=3E<FONT color=3Dmaroon=3EOBITUARY<BR=3E</FONT=3E</STRONG=3E<BR=3EToday w=
e mourn the passing of a beloved old friend by the name of Common Sense who =
has been with us for many years=2E<BR=3E<BR=3ENo one knows for sure how old =
he was since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape=2E=
<BR=3E<BR=3EHe will be remembered as having cultivated such value lessons as=
 knowing when to come in out of the rain, why the early bird gets the worm a=
nd that life isn't always fair=2E<BR=3E<BR=3ECommon Sense lived by simple, s=
ound financial policies (don't spend more than you earn) and reliable parent=
ing strategies (adults, not kids, are in charge)=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EHis health be=
gan to rapidly deteriorate when well intentioned but overbearing regulations=
 were set in place=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EReports of a six-year-old boy charged with =
sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens suspended from school for u=
sing mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly s=
tudent, only worsened his condition=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EIt declined even further w=
hen schools were required to get parental consent to administer aspirin to a=
 student; but, could not inform the parents when a student became pregnant a=
nd wanted to have an abortion=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EFinally, Common Sense lost the w=
ill to live as the Ten Commandments became contraband; churches became busin=
esses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims=2E<BR=3E<B=
R=3ECommon Sense finally gave up the ghost after a woman failed to realise t=
hat a steaming cup of coffee was hot, she spilled a bit in her lap, and was =
awarded a huge settlement=2E<BR=3E<BR=3ECommon Sense was preceded in death b=
y his parents, Truth and Trust, his wife Discretion; his daughter, Responsib=
ility; and his son, Reason=2E<BR=3E<BR=3EHe is survived by two stepbrothers;=
 My Rights and Ima Whinger=2E<BR=3E<BR=3ENot many attended his funeral becau=
se so few realised he was gone=2E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN:=
 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E=A0</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E=
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=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E=A0=
</P=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN:=
 0cm 0cm 0pt' align=3Djustify=3E<STRONG=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size:=
 8=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana color=3Dsienna size=3D2=3EWhat Parents Can =
Do:</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</STRONG=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 8=2E0pt'=3E=
<BR=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EThe </FONT=3E<A href=3D'http://www=2Eb=
osweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/rr=2Easp=3Fs=3D2152&v=3D55&c=3D21&u=3Dhttp://=
www=2Eadvocatesforyouth=2Eorg/index=2Ehtm' target=3D=5Fblank=3E<SPAN style=3D=
'mso-ansi-font-size: 10=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana color=3D#055069 size=3D=
2=3Eresearch</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</A=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=
 is clear - young people who feel connected to family are more likely to avo=
id risky behaviors in adolescence=2E As a parent, you are the primary educat=
or of your children=2E You communicate your attitudes and beliefs in verbal =
and nonverbal ways=2E You share your feelings about sexuality in actions and=
 words=2E There are many things you can do to help your children develop int=
o sexually healthy adults=2E Teach very young children the appropriate words=
 for parts of the body=2E As they grow older, answer their questions honestl=
y and be willing to answer their questions about relationships, puberty, and=
 intimacy=2E Model mutually respectful relationships=2E Talk with your young=
 people about sexuality and character=2E Help them understand your values an=
d stress the importance values play in your life=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E<=
/FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E=
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Verdana=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoN=
ormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 8=2E=
0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3E<A href=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2E=
au/email=5Fblast/rr=2Easp=3Fs=3D2152&v=3D55&c=3D21&u=3Dhttp://www=2Edadsfork=
ids=2Eorg/'=3Ewww=2Edadsforkids=2Eorg</A=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=
=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E=
</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E=
<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://=
www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/ba=
nner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bg=
color=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast=
/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font =
size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E=
<a name=3D'anchor6'=3E</a=3E<b=3ESpecial Feature</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D=
'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Eco=
m=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue86-19th April, 2004=5Ffa=
mily=5Fstrife=2Egif' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <H1 style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0p=
t'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 10=2E0pt'=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'=
mso-bidi-font-size: 10=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3E</FONT=3E</S=
PAN=3E=A0</H1=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIG=
N: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 13=2E5pt'=3E<FONT face=
=3DVerdana color=3Dindianred size=3D4=3E<STRONG=3EWhy Families Are in Strife=
</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm=
 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center' align=3Dcenter=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=
=3EBill Muehlenberg</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana =
size=3D2=3EFamilies have been doing it hard lately=2E There are many reasons=
 for this=2E But one institution that is supposed to be helping the family, =
the Family Court, seems to be contributing to the problems families face=2E<=
/FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EMany of t=
hose associated with the Court have been less than helpful in promoting fami=
ly interests=2E As but one example, consider the Chief Justice of the Family=
 Court, Alistair Nicholson=2E He continues to stir up controversy, even as h=
e moves into retirement=2E He has been known over the years as someone who h=
as used his position to <IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Ea=
u/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5FANicholson=2Ejpg' align=3Dright vs=
pace=3D3 border=3D0=3Epush political causes, and take partisan stands on con=
troversial issues=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=
 size=3D2=3ESeveral recent episodes clearly demonstrate that he is still int=
ent on rocking the boat=2E In an interview with Radio National=92s Law Repor=
t in early April he continued to provoke controversy, making remarks that wo=
uld worry many Australians=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3D=
Verdana size=3D2=3EWhen asked why he thought so many men=92s groups were ups=
et with his time as head of the Court, he dismissed these concerns, saying g=
libly, 'men don=92t suffer in family law proceedings'=2E Many thousands of m=
en world beg to differ=2E Men have often been the big losers in custody deci=
sions=2E Not only is it women who usually instigate a divorce, but the vast =
majority of parents to get custody of children are the mothers=2E</FONT=3E</=
P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EMany men are furiou=
s that they pay maintenance, but have a very hard time getting to see their =
own children=2E Visitation rights are either overly restrictive or just not =
enforced=2E That is not to say that there are some dead-beat dads out there,=
 but to affirm that men have some very legitimate grievances with the curren=
t operations of the Family Court=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT=
 face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EThe leading family judge also waded into the deba=
te about same sex marriage, arguing that there was nothing wrong with the id=
ea, and that children in such a household suffered no ill effects=2E Of cour=
se, he has made these statements before, but this is an example of advocacy,=
 not impartiality=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=
 size=3D2=3EHe said that there is no evidence that children brought up in sa=
me-sex households are worse off than children brought up in heterosexual fam=
ilies=2E This is simply not true=2E There is a growing mountain of evidence =
which demonstrates that children do best by every indicator when raised by t=
heir biological father and mother, and are disadvantaged in every other type=
 of relationship=2E Children need a mother and a father, full stop=2E</FONT=3E=
</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EThe retiring judg=
e is clearly putting trendy social engineering ahead of demonstrated fact=2E=
 By taking the side of a radical minority group, he is putting the interests=
 and needs of children last=2E Why take up the cause of just one or two per =
cent of the population, while ignoring the over-whelming majority of Austral=
ians=3F</FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EI=
n his interview he also commented that religion should have no bearing on th=
e issue of marriage=2E He said that since marriage in this country is a secu=
lar institution, there should be no concerns about same-sex marriage=2E</FON=
T=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EHe is wrong o=
n several accounts here=2E First, he ignores the truth that it is the Judeo-=
Christian tradition that underpins law in Australia and the West, including =
its marriage laws=2E </FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdan=
a size=3D2=3ESecond, by saying this he is insulting the overwhelming majorit=
y of Australians who highly value religion, be it Judaism, Islam, or Christi=
anity=2E </FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3E=
Third, the arguments against same-sex marriage and adoption rights can be ma=
de purely on the basis of social science research, not on religious argument=
ation=2E His claim that 'society will not suffer in any way' from same-sex m=
arriage and adoption is not based on the social science evidence, but on his=
 own impartial advocacy role for special rights for homosexuals=2E</FONT=3E<=
/P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EIn a more recent e=
xample of radical social engineering, the Chief Justice ruled that a 13-year=
-old girl who wants a sex change operation should be allowed to do so=2E The=
 troubled ward of the state is convinced she is a boy, and wants to start ho=
rmonal therapy, before a sex change operation at age 18=2E</FONT=3E</P=3E<P =
align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EThis is just radical socia=
l engineering of the worst kind=2E As Dr Nicholas Tonti-Filippini pointed ou=
t, gender dysphoria is a mental illness, which needs to be managed, and not =
treated with biological tampering=2E And the fact that she has engaged in se=
lf harm will not disappear after a sex change operation=2E Statistics show t=
hat such self-harm continues even after these changes are made=2E</FONT=3E</=
P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EAnd Alan Finch, who=
 had a sex change from male to female and back again, also warmed of this da=
ngerous decision: 'the child needs some psychotherapy to investigate her bac=
kground and find out what caused this delusion=2E' He continued, 'Some of th=
e consequences of having hormones are as irreversible as having surgery=2E'<=
/FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EOther exa=
mples of this judge=92s radical and anti-family pronouncements and decisions=
 could be produced=2E The controversial judge is clearly at odds with mainst=
ream Australia, and his comments demonstrates why his reign at the Family Co=
urt was so filled with controversy and unease=2E He has used his position to=
 push the agenda of radical minority groups, while ignoring the cares and co=
ncerns of the majority of Australians, the very ones who pay his salary=2E</=
FONT=3E</P=3E<P align=3Djustify=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EIt may be =
time to put the Family Court out of its misery and start from scratch=2E Sur=
ely such a move could not be as damaging as the current situation=2E</FONT=3E=
</P=3E<P=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F<BR=3EBill Muehl=
enberg is the=A0Research Executive=A0of the Australian Family Association</P=
=3E<P=3E<A href=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/rr=2Easp=3Fs=
=3D2152&v=3D55&c=3D21&u=3Dhttp://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/rr=2E=
asp=3Fs=3D2081&v=3D300&c=3D21&u=3Dhttp://www=2Efamily=2Eorg=2Eau/'=3E<FONT f=
ace=3DVerdana size=3D2=3Ehttp://www=2Efamily=2Eorg=2Eau/</FONT=3E</A=3E</FON=
T=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=
=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E=
</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E=
<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/t=
emplate1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D=
578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2E=
au/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=3E<blockquo=
te=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif' colo=
r=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor7'=3E</a=3E<b=3EThought for the Week</b=3E=
</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'ht=
tp://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue86=
-19th April, 2004=5Ftemp man=2Ebmp' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <SPAN lang=3DEN-=
AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3E<FONT color=3Ddeeppink=3E<SPAN l=
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ft up to those who really do not give a rip about families=2E The latest out=
rage of the Family Court and its radical head, Alistair Nicholson, is just a=
nother case in point=2E The decision to allow a 13-year-old girl to become a=
 boy shows how out of touch and out to lunch these activist judges are=2E</F=
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